venting while intoxicated (i highly recommend it!)

i was i.d.ed tonight at the restaurant/bar i was at this evening while my boyfriend and 3 other ladies sitting at my table were not. the waitress singled me out when i ordered my drink!!! my boyfriend turned to the waitress and says, "it's the vest right?" referring to the gap vest i wore as my jacket into the restaurant (gimmee a break it was POURING rain in new york). so not only does the waitress assume i'm twelve, but my boyfriend has to ridicule my attire. great. honestly, i know i should feel flattered that she i.d.ed me because someday i'm going to be pissed when they DON'T id me, but the fact that my boyfriend who is 3 months younger than me never once has gotten ided (even when he wasn't at all legal) has always bothered me. the fact he ordered a "Presbyterian" to drink (whatever the hell that is) and he wears "grandpa sweaters" might have something to do with it, but i can't say for sure! anyway, i guess i have no choice but to get over it and enjoy my youthful goodlooks while they last and in the meantime ensure that i have proper identification on my person at all times.